It is said, it is repeated: the preliminaries are in-dis-pen-sables. Because they raise the desire little by little, because they awaken the erotic imagination, because they create a bubble of complicity between the partners ... they accentuate the pleasure.
In women, the preliminaries also play a vital role: they promote the lubrication of the vagina, which ensures a sexual relationship without small pain. Much more concrete, but essential to access orgasm!
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If the preliminaries "traditional" are usually based on caresses, kisses, masturbation ... it is possible to test some novelties. If, for example, you enjoy duo masturbation, let yourself be tempted by the tit, a two-on-one masturbation technique - and why not a couple sex-toy?
Do you fancy? The naughty role-playing game reaches you: it slips into the skin of Christian Gray, you in that of Miss Steel, and you replay together the scenes ass (s) of 50 shades of Gray ... Want romance? Instead, go on preliminaries based on erotic literature, or even on an erotic film. Originality!
For a long time, penetration was considered by our men (or their ancestors) as the pinnacle of the sexual act, the preliminaries serving only to bring them there ... An idea still anchored in male and female spirits, corroborated by the very definition of the word ("which precedes and prepares another thing considered more important, or principal"), but also by pornography, where penetration is systematically represented.
Fortunately, the liberation of the woman has given these gentlemen the right to claim a more fulfilling and egalitarian sexuality. And they found their account ... and their pleasure. We take stock of our misconceptions, with the decryption of Alain Héril *, sex
For many men (who have conveyed this idea to women), successful preliminaries necessarily rhyme with fellatio, and that's it! Too bad, because their buttocks, their shoulders, the inside of their thighs or their breasts are highly erogenous zones.
They are not aware of it, and for good reason: if, when the woman masturbates, she has a global approach to her body, the man, in his solo practice, remains focused on his sex. Therefore, he will not have the reflex to experiment with his partner that he has not experienced alone. Do not hesitate to invite him!
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